So i think i have bad luck.
bad things always happen to me when i don't want them to.
I went to this college media conference in kentucky last weekend and i was super excited to go to this design workshop.
The design workshop was great!
However, my relationship with my editor turned sour.
I mean, he was kinda sketchy and creepy before. but it escalated.
Before the conference he kept asking me if i was going to nightclubs with him, if i was gonna go out and live a little. I of course bluntly said "no, of course not. and i wouldn't go with you anyways."
then he would ask if i was taking my swimsuit and I said no dickhead it's winter.
Then at the conference i was hanging out with my friend and he texted me asking me what i was doing and if i was gonna go party or go out and live a little.
I ignored him.
Then he says, "yeah thats okay, i was just going to invite you to go have some fun, but don't even respond."
Who does that? who texts someone who is ignoring them and call them out like that? does he not know what ignoring him means?
I ignored him. again.
he says, "Your roommate is here."
I say, "im busy"
He says, "Doing what??? come over!"
I say, "why can't you get that i don't wanna hang out with you."
He got the picture, and didn't text me after that. But seriously, why would i wanna go to a party with my boss where there is going to be a bunch of strangers and alcohol? One, i'm underage. So why would he offer me that? does he not know anything? He's a freakin idiot. and it was creeping me out.
Then, at 1 am in the morning he says, "are you this mean to all your staff?" I was like woooow. that's mature. so i said, "you're making me feel uncomfortable and i want to hang out with people my own age."
He says, "Ah fine, i didn't know if you wanted to come to this party a bunch of editors were at--figured you might not know as many of these peeps as me.. wanted to make sure you had a lil fun on this trip .. but have fun anyway."
and I was like, "I know how to have my own fun, thank you. And no i don't want to go to a party with you and a bunch of strangers."
IT's like, i'm not retarded you fkin idiot. If i've been at the conference for a day i have people to hang out with. And im a designer, i'm not going to hang out with a bunch of editors that are three years older than me.
And so he said, "I know, I know. Alright.. you look so upset all the time, i wanted to be sure you had a bit of fun." I'm not gonna have fun with my boss. and i've never treated him that way either. I've made it clear that he annoys me. and you're not my mom.
I said, "Well, u don't need to egg it on .I know how to take care of myself. I clearly have a boyfriend and I don't like that. bye."
and then he said, "i know i know. i have a gf too. bye."
It was SOOOOO IMmmature! like who does that? he's my boss for chrissakes. IT was super awkward and made me sick to my stomach. I can't even look at him.
I told my faculty advisor about it, yes i know i tattle taled. But it was the right thing to do because that was sooo innappropriate. She is going to talk to him about why his behavior was problematic.
So now, i have to deal with a creepy editor. while i work in the basement , with crappy cell phone service.
why me?
And if he even tries to bring it up or act creepy again. I will chew him out. and i'll tell on him again.
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
bad luck
Posted by Kendrita at 4:19 PM 0 comments
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